Every
now and then, little misunderstandings are bound to come up in our
relationships and marriages as well. What will be most significant is how well
we respond to these issues when they come up. What is important is for us to
learn to be rational while dealing with problems that spring up in our
relationships. While some people are careful enough to take quite sensible
actions, others tend to do the unreasonable, such as denying your partner sex
just because you’re not happy with him. Yes, some could argue that it has
worked for them, but the fact remains that it will do more harm than good and
the following are the reasons why.
YOU
DRIFT APART
This
is a natural progression in a relationship or marriage where sex has been put
on hold. Sex between couples breeds closeness and deep intimacy. It is not
possible that a couple who had probably been acting cold to each other would
finally, make love to each other and then begin to insult each other the moment
they’re done having sex. The expectation is that by the time they’re done
making love, all of the anger and bitterness they had bottled up for each other
would simply melt away.
*YOUR
LOVE FOR EACH OTHER DIES SLOWLY
This
will definitely happen if the coldness continues for too long and sex is no
longer happening between both of you. Indeed, the moment you begin to starve
your partner of sex, he begins to conclude that you probably no longer love him
anymore and that is why sex between both of you means nothing to you. And this
could be a very dangerous point to reach in a relationship.
RESENTMENT
SETS IN
Once
you allow the situation to degenerate and you and your partner begin to go
weeks or even months without sex, then you’re both likely to begin to resent
each other. You may no longer be able to spend a minute in each other’s
company. And if you’re not careful and wise enough to revert the situation and
get back to the way things used to be between both of you, which has to start
with a very intense sexual intimacy, then you guys may just find yourselves
really beginning to hate each other. And that could spell doom for the
relationship or marriage
INFIDELITY
SETS IN
Once
you deprive a man for too long, chances are that he would look elsewhere for
it. And if he becomes desperate, he could even start patronising prostitutes.
Once a man starts to find solace in the arms of another woman outside his
relationship or marriage, then there certainly will be fire on the mountain
soon because he might just fall in love with the new woman and may want to make
her a permanent feature in his life. Now, where would that leave you?
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