It is commonplace to find ladies telling anyone who cares to listen that they have a bestie. As a matter of fact, they flaunt their besties and spend time in each other’s companies. They often hang out together, share secrets, share joy and pain together as well. So, we have all come to accept that it’s their way of life. But when you see a man with a female bestie and not a male, eyebrows are often raised. They tell everyone who cares to ask that they’re just friends but few believe them. People ask questions and seek to know the foundation of their relationship. If you’re a lady and your man has a female bestie, here are 5 reasons why you should be very wary of their relationship.
*You
will always be up against your guy’s bestie, fighting for space in his heart
and in his life. If the bestie is unattached and without a boyfriend, that
means she’ll always have time to spend with your man. And that could bring
problems for you.
*You
will always be in competition with her, especially if she’s an attractive looking
lady. You will continue to find yourself trying ceaselessly to match her
gorgeous look or possibly surpass her just so that you don’t give your man room
to lust after her. He could start wishing she were his babe and not you.
*You
will constantly be suspecting your man of possibly dating his bestie. Every
time you see them together, you will feel the rage inside you. Each time you
complain he says they’re just friends and nothing more. But that’s not what it
looks like to you. The problem is, as you continue to raise your suspicion, you and
your man start to argue and fight. If you’re not careful, these constant fights
and arguments could lead to your break-up.
*If
she’s a trouble maker who enjoys getting under your skin and getting you all
worked up by making you feel threatened and jealous, then you’re in for a rough
time. Once she knows you’re always uncomfortable seeing her with your man,
she’ll simply continue to taunt you just to upset you and make you feel
unhappy.
*Like
it or not, there’s always the chance your man and his bestie could end up as
lovers, especially if that’s what the bestie secretly desires. For all you
know, they may even have been lovers before you came into the picture. They had
probably agreed to break up and remain friends, but you know what they say
about old flames, they just never die that easily. Your man’s bestie may want
something and if your man is not careful enough, sooner or later, he will have
no other choice but to give her what she wants.
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