•An Insider Reveals
Marriage
crashes have become the order of the day in the entertainment industry. Though
many will say it happens in other sectors, and that theirs is just in the news
because they are famous and can’t hide issues concerning their lives from the
general public. But, many still insist it’s more rampant in showbiz.
Just
within 5 days, 2 highly respected filmmakers, Funke Akindele and JJC Skillz,
then Chacha Eke and Austin Faani’s marriages packed up, leaving many of their
fans and well-wishers heartbroken.
The
rate at which showbiz marriages crash lately is really getting scary. In 2021,
over 10 marriages crashed, and in the first quarter of 2022, over 6 showbiz marriages crashed.
And
just when we thought we have seen enough for the year, the news of Funke
Akindele and JJC Skillz, Chacha Eke and Austin Faani’s marriage crash news went
viral.
And
this has kept many wondering what exactly is happening. At the initial stage of
the marriage, these couples always look too good together and many even
conclude their union was made in heaven and will go on to last forever. Then
few years into the marriage, the news of their breakup starts making the
rounds.
Many
will say marriage breakups happen every day and that theirs is more pronounced
because they are in the limelight, which is true but many younger ones look up
to them as role models and mentors and they are expected to live a life worthy
of emulation.
Most
times, the reasons for a breakup are usually a joint thing, as has been
speculated in the case of star actress, Funke Akindele and JJC Skillz.
Sometimes, the man contributes to the breakup, and the same applies to the woman.
A
well-renowned filmmaker in the industry, who prefers to be anonymous, revealed
to City People the real reasons why many showbiz marriages will continue to crash.
According to her, one of the major problems is of insecurity. Most
especially on the part of the lady.
Most
of the ladies married to filmmakers always feel uncomfortable with the
relationship their partners share with their colleagues in the industry, most
especially, if they are getting too close for comfort.
These
actors spend weeks on location with their female colleagues, all in the name of
shooting movies and during this period, a lot of things go wrong. According to
her, a good number of showbiz marriages are going through a lot, all because
of this problem of being away from home. There are so many like that in the
industry that the general public has not even heard about.
After
tolerating and enduring the man (actor) for so long, the wife keeps bearing the
emotional torture.
It
gets to a point that she wouldn’t be able to tolerate it anymore and the only
option that comes to her mind is to end the marriage and get her sanity back.
There
is also the issue of men who don’t have a dime to their name, and settling down
with a popular actress, will not only provide him with living a comfortable
life, but the fame will also rub off on him. This happens to men who move in
with their women instead of the other way round. He moves into the actress’s house
and becomes the woman at home and then fakes being the husband outside. The
lady, being the breadwinner, does irrational things and lives her life as she
deems fit. When the so-called husband can not bear just being at the
background, he will consider opting out, and before they both realise what is
happening, there’s already a crack in the marriage, and ending it all will
always be considered the only solution.
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